I am caring for my partner who has been recently diagnosed with Dementia with Lewy Bodies after two years with a diagnosis of Mixed Alzeimers/vascular dementia. I am finding the mistrust very difficult to handle. After forty years of a trusting and loving relationship, he now (from time to time) accuses me of "plotting", "conniving" and suggests he needs to consult a solicitor or one of the children. I have made a point from the start of always being open and never discussing things behind his back and always running things regarding our lives past him first. (Even though he forgets or does not take it in) He occasionally shows a flash of recognition that we have discussed the matter so I always hope it will be better to have tried to make what I am thinking/doing clear. Quite often now, a curtain comes down and he stares at me (uncomfortably) and then the accusation is made! It sometimes takes my breath away as it is so outrageous Is it usual for this type of suspicion and paranoia to be directed at the primary carer only? He does not appear to behave in the same way to other people who have contact with him.