Hi everyone
My dad has LBD, now currently ensconced in a NH and safe. I was new to LBD until last May when he was diagnosed and he has declined rapidly, frighteningly so. Those of you with LBD experience, do you recognise massive swings in mood and symptons ? My dad swings between placid, happy and sociable to very aggressive, moody, uncommunicative, spiteful and downright nasty.
He has been given Lorazepan for his really bad days, but these are also the days that he refuses his medication so they can't always get it into him. He also a Rivastigmine patch to assist with his bad nightmares - which he never refuses.
Also, when I saw him on Tuesday evening, although he was confused and hallucinating (which I have become used to and this doesn't concern me anymore), he was okay in himself. When I went to see him yesterday evening he was slumped in a chair, could barely raise his head, was talking complete nonsense, had difficulty eating his tea, was dribbling constantly and needed help drinking and eating his pudding. I was there for over an hour and a half just trying to be of some comfort to him. At no point does he have difficulty recognising me though, he knows exactly who I am, that's why he is able to insult me so badly when he is having a bad day (If you were a stranger seeing him for the first time yesterday, you would think he was in the later stages of dementia).
If I had found him like this at home I would have called a Dr out to him, but these sort of symptons don't faze the NH and I don't know if I am worrying un-neccessarily.
Is this all normal ? I know there is nothing 'normal' about dementia but I'm sure you will all know what I mean (I know that all dementia patients are individual and that symptons vary from person to person).
I just need to know if this is how it should be/will continue to be, so that I can stop stressing myself out about all of this, or if I should get him reviewed. He is due a visit to the memory clinic on Monday but if he is still like this I will go on my own. It really is difficult to get myhead around the massive differences from day to day sometimes.
Many thanks for any help
My dad has LBD, now currently ensconced in a NH and safe. I was new to LBD until last May when he was diagnosed and he has declined rapidly, frighteningly so. Those of you with LBD experience, do you recognise massive swings in mood and symptons ? My dad swings between placid, happy and sociable to very aggressive, moody, uncommunicative, spiteful and downright nasty.
He has been given Lorazepan for his really bad days, but these are also the days that he refuses his medication so they can't always get it into him. He also a Rivastigmine patch to assist with his bad nightmares - which he never refuses.
Also, when I saw him on Tuesday evening, although he was confused and hallucinating (which I have become used to and this doesn't concern me anymore), he was okay in himself. When I went to see him yesterday evening he was slumped in a chair, could barely raise his head, was talking complete nonsense, had difficulty eating his tea, was dribbling constantly and needed help drinking and eating his pudding. I was there for over an hour and a half just trying to be of some comfort to him. At no point does he have difficulty recognising me though, he knows exactly who I am, that's why he is able to insult me so badly when he is having a bad day (If you were a stranger seeing him for the first time yesterday, you would think he was in the later stages of dementia).
If I had found him like this at home I would have called a Dr out to him, but these sort of symptons don't faze the NH and I don't know if I am worrying un-neccessarily.
Is this all normal ? I know there is nothing 'normal' about dementia but I'm sure you will all know what I mean (I know that all dementia patients are individual and that symptons vary from person to person).
I just need to know if this is how it should be/will continue to be, so that I can stop stressing myself out about all of this, or if I should get him reviewed. He is due a visit to the memory clinic on Monday but if he is still like this I will go on my own. It really is difficult to get myhead around the massive differences from day to day sometimes.
Many thanks for any help