Hi all,
Another year into our life with Alzheimers. As some of you may remember, my husband was 49 when he was diagnosed. He is now 63. I am grateful for all the things my husband can still do. He still gets dressed (I must be sure he wears fresh clothes-but he can still put them on) he can bath and use facilities himself, seems to know all the immediate family and friends. His command of words is lessening, but then from time to time I forget my words. He was always a quiet man, so most people do not really notice. Or perhaps it is me who just does not notice the change as I have been living with the slow decline for so long. I joined talking point in 2011, I think.
But I have a new issue. He decided to stop taking his medication. He said he was feeling odd and different and felt it was the meds. I give him his meds each day. and he started spitting them out without my knowledge. He is on 15 mg of Aricept (increased from 10 two years agos) Gingsing twice a day. and some other Chorlesterol pills and stuff. But of course he is just spitting them all out---no knowledge of which pill is which. I was very shocked to discover that he was spitting them out and putting them into an old eyeglass case.
But I have been told it is highly unlikely the Aricept (by a doctor from the Memory clinic) provides any benefit at this time. So, my question is what to do next. As he is off all meds now, I am very tempted to keep him off everything and see where it takes us. He no longer wants to see the professor at the university as last year the professor would not support him continueing to drive. But he does trust our GP who is a good person, but not an Alz expert like the professor. (our two daughters are both doctors also) So, we will discuss the situation.
He does have some anxiety in the evening (searching for missing items) and sundowning. But we manage without meds--and I had resisted meds for this as I did not want side effects, but now they are suggesting he take Gabapentin for anxiety associated with dementia. Has anyone used this?
He has only been violent with me two times in all this time. And it is when I insisted on something and he felt bullied. So, if he does not want his meds, I will not insist.
He is still very very active. He walks a minimum 4 times per week. Twice with a paid carer, once with a volunteer and once with a friend. And if I feel up to walking on the weekends, I take him. I think this has been the biggest benefit to his well being of anything. It makes him tired, gives him an appetite, and gets him out in nature which he loves.
But everyone seems to think I should continue to give him all these meds and I feel there is no point. What difference does if make if his cholesterol goes up...does it matter. I think not.
So basically, I still read many of your entries , but I do not often comment. Its been a long haul for me and I stay in this 24 hours and out of the future, as I can see from your entries that the future may not be too good. But today I think all is ok. His carer will come at 11 for a 3.5 to 4 hour walk and I will have the house to myself.
Take care all.
Another year into our life with Alzheimers. As some of you may remember, my husband was 49 when he was diagnosed. He is now 63. I am grateful for all the things my husband can still do. He still gets dressed (I must be sure he wears fresh clothes-but he can still put them on) he can bath and use facilities himself, seems to know all the immediate family and friends. His command of words is lessening, but then from time to time I forget my words. He was always a quiet man, so most people do not really notice. Or perhaps it is me who just does not notice the change as I have been living with the slow decline for so long. I joined talking point in 2011, I think.
But I have a new issue. He decided to stop taking his medication. He said he was feeling odd and different and felt it was the meds. I give him his meds each day. and he started spitting them out without my knowledge. He is on 15 mg of Aricept (increased from 10 two years agos) Gingsing twice a day. and some other Chorlesterol pills and stuff. But of course he is just spitting them all out---no knowledge of which pill is which. I was very shocked to discover that he was spitting them out and putting them into an old eyeglass case.
But I have been told it is highly unlikely the Aricept (by a doctor from the Memory clinic) provides any benefit at this time. So, my question is what to do next. As he is off all meds now, I am very tempted to keep him off everything and see where it takes us. He no longer wants to see the professor at the university as last year the professor would not support him continueing to drive. But he does trust our GP who is a good person, but not an Alz expert like the professor. (our two daughters are both doctors also) So, we will discuss the situation.
He does have some anxiety in the evening (searching for missing items) and sundowning. But we manage without meds--and I had resisted meds for this as I did not want side effects, but now they are suggesting he take Gabapentin for anxiety associated with dementia. Has anyone used this?
He has only been violent with me two times in all this time. And it is when I insisted on something and he felt bullied. So, if he does not want his meds, I will not insist.
He is still very very active. He walks a minimum 4 times per week. Twice with a paid carer, once with a volunteer and once with a friend. And if I feel up to walking on the weekends, I take him. I think this has been the biggest benefit to his well being of anything. It makes him tired, gives him an appetite, and gets him out in nature which he loves.
But everyone seems to think I should continue to give him all these meds and I feel there is no point. What difference does if make if his cholesterol goes up...does it matter. I think not.
So basically, I still read many of your entries , but I do not often comment. Its been a long haul for me and I stay in this 24 hours and out of the future, as I can see from your entries that the future may not be too good. But today I think all is ok. His carer will come at 11 for a 3.5 to 4 hour walk and I will have the house to myself.
Take care all.