I now accept that I need to put a support package in place to help me continue to look after my husband at home. He was 70 this year and is still physically fit. However his condition with Alzheimer's has deteriorated. He cannot be left alone at all and likes me to be constantly in sight so I am followed everywhere. He experiences mood swings and can be quite challenging in his behaviour at times. All around me are telling me I must accept that I need help so I guess I may be showing more signs of stress or something than I think.
So, to my turning to TP for the thoughts and suggestions of others experiencing similar. My Alzheimers society link person has suggested I employ a personal assistant to help me care for Mick. I think it's more of a carer / companion role for my husband, Mick. He was attending a day care centre one day a week but hated it so stopped. I have found a care home that offers day care and he has been once. It seemed successful but he says he doesn't want to return. I think if someone other than me took him it might be better.
So I think I'm looking for someone who could drive him places, accompany him on walks or look after him at home to give me breaks possibly moving to helping him shower and dress some mornings or put him to bed some evenings.
Does anyone have this kind of arrangement or thoughts on the pros and cons or other suggestions? We would be self funding.
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So, to my turning to TP for the thoughts and suggestions of others experiencing similar. My Alzheimers society link person has suggested I employ a personal assistant to help me care for Mick. I think it's more of a carer / companion role for my husband, Mick. He was attending a day care centre one day a week but hated it so stopped. I have found a care home that offers day care and he has been once. It seemed successful but he says he doesn't want to return. I think if someone other than me took him it might be better.
So I think I'm looking for someone who could drive him places, accompany him on walks or look after him at home to give me breaks possibly moving to helping him shower and dress some mornings or put him to bed some evenings.
Does anyone have this kind of arrangement or thoughts on the pros and cons or other suggestions? We would be self funding.
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