Hello all. I am new to this site and just wanted to say hi and ask for a bit of advice. My amazing grandparents are 92 and 89 and are living unaided in their own flat. They are mostly in good health. My grandad has been diagnosed with dementia which mainly presents as memory problems, but he can become very aggravated and angry, especially at my Nan. He can lose his temper and has been making threats to 'do himself in' if my Nan gets any help in. But they need help. my Nan is struggling to manage and is often very upset. He threw things across the room last week. He won't even entertain a cleaner r anything that could take the burden from my Nan or help him. So what I was wondering....any ideas or tips on how I could gently introduce the idea of 'other people' being involved? Without my Nan having to suffer the consequences. He will stop eating and drinking when he is aggravated. I just want the best for both of them. At the moment they are both unhappy which is saddening. Thank you and Merry Christmas.