My dad is 92, mid to late stages of VD. He still lives at home with my mum. Due to terrible sundowning ("going home") he has been on respiridone for several months and that seems to have helped a fair bit, also he is physically less able to cause problems as the disease progresses.
Yesterday my brother put up their Christmas tree for them. I had wondered whether a tree would be a good idea - as it's a change - but I know mum wanted it.
Anyway, last night he apparently sundowned quite badly all evening, needing to "go home". This is quite unusual now though not unknown.
I am wondering whether I should take the tree down when I go over tomorrow? It's nice for mum but if it makes dad sundown....What do other people in this sistuation do?
There are no real answers I know - but would wlecome thoughts. I worry so much about the stress on my mum.
Thanks x
Yesterday my brother put up their Christmas tree for them. I had wondered whether a tree would be a good idea - as it's a change - but I know mum wanted it.
Anyway, last night he apparently sundowned quite badly all evening, needing to "go home". This is quite unusual now though not unknown.
I am wondering whether I should take the tree down when I go over tomorrow? It's nice for mum but if it makes dad sundown....What do other people in this sistuation do?
There are no real answers I know - but would wlecome thoughts. I worry so much about the stress on my mum.
Thanks x