My Mum is in hospital at the moment and yesterday afternoon she tried to break out! So the hospital have invoked DOLS. I do agree that she should NOT be released from hospital and is not safe to be out on her own, being in mid-stage Vascular Dementia, but what I object to is that, as her daughter and with LPA, I was NOT informed of this. I DID get a phone call from someone on her ward, missed it, heard the message and returned the call, the person was 'training', I left a message (this was at about 3pm) and heard nothing back. Only when I went in to visit today was I told of the DOLS.
Having read the government info on DOLS I am somewhat alarmed that I effectively have NO say now in her welfare and could even be prevented from seeing her (I see no reason why they would do this but.... it's the principle).
What are the rules about informing family when this happens? Should I kick up a fuss about it? I feel somewhat violated but am aware that I am probably much more brittle than usual because of events of the last 2 weeks (all very dramatic and too lengthy to go into here)
Any thoughts/suggestions from my learned forum friends?
Having read the government info on DOLS I am somewhat alarmed that I effectively have NO say now in her welfare and could even be prevented from seeing her (I see no reason why they would do this but.... it's the principle).
What are the rules about informing family when this happens? Should I kick up a fuss about it? I feel somewhat violated but am aware that I am probably much more brittle than usual because of events of the last 2 weeks (all very dramatic and too lengthy to go into here)
Any thoughts/suggestions from my learned forum friends?