Hi All
I haven't posted anything for a while now, time just seems to disappear. Just thought I would give an update here.
When I first postes, my mum had MCI. As things begain to deteriorate, Dad took her back to the Doctor who referred her for a brain scan, then as that was inconclusive she had ECG tests. This showed a clearer picture of part of the brain being starved of blood and the Vascular Dementia and Alzheimers was diagnosed.
Sometimes, well most of the time, I feel totally ineffective and useless. I work full time, and my Dad is Mum's carer. She is happy and laughs, but says very little and when she does, it's a reapeat of what she's heard. I take on the cooking, cleaning washing etc as well as trying to keep Mum in check, keep Dad from getting stressed and try to live my life too ( that's not happening).
2 weeks ago she went out and dissapeared for 4 hours. It was dark, cold and raining. We had to involve the police after searches of our own drew a blank. We eventually got her home safely, she has walked 6 miles to a supermarket and waited. Thankfully the staff took care of her, and managed to weedle our telephone number and name out of her. It's so very worrying, and I know it will only get harder.
I'm sorry to ramble on. Sometimes I feel I have no one to talk to or get things of my chest to.
I haven't posted anything for a while now, time just seems to disappear. Just thought I would give an update here.
When I first postes, my mum had MCI. As things begain to deteriorate, Dad took her back to the Doctor who referred her for a brain scan, then as that was inconclusive she had ECG tests. This showed a clearer picture of part of the brain being starved of blood and the Vascular Dementia and Alzheimers was diagnosed.
Sometimes, well most of the time, I feel totally ineffective and useless. I work full time, and my Dad is Mum's carer. She is happy and laughs, but says very little and when she does, it's a reapeat of what she's heard. I take on the cooking, cleaning washing etc as well as trying to keep Mum in check, keep Dad from getting stressed and try to live my life too ( that's not happening).
2 weeks ago she went out and dissapeared for 4 hours. It was dark, cold and raining. We had to involve the police after searches of our own drew a blank. We eventually got her home safely, she has walked 6 miles to a supermarket and waited. Thankfully the staff took care of her, and managed to weedle our telephone number and name out of her. It's so very worrying, and I know it will only get harder.
I'm sorry to ramble on. Sometimes I feel I have no one to talk to or get things of my chest to.