My lovely Dad passed awayour in August. He was myour world. I spent 12 days with him in hospital on a camp bed, making sure he felt secure, loved and not in any discomfort or pain. My brother and invisable went to Spain on holiday the day after the consultant told me that he had between 3 days and 2 weeks to live. His wife visited before she left and all she could say was have you thought about who you are going to phone when anything happens? I thought she meant my brother or their children, no which funeral organisation!!!! I have been a constant for both parents. My Mum said recently how I looked after Dad at the end and he replied no the hospital did! He needed a familiar face although he didn't know me , I know he knew I was someone who cared for him and loved him.
My problem is my Mum, who has early dementia has said she wants to change her will to my benefit. I do believe she knows what she is saying, but if I accept our know there will be such a back lash. I have said this, but she said I don't care. My problem is she won't have to deal with it I will. I am so torn, she keeps insisting that this is what she wants and whathe my Dad would of wanted. I love them both sides very much and want to the right thing what do I do, my brother will say she was diagnosed with dementia and didn't know what she was doing. Just want to do what my parents wanted. Advice please. X
My problem is my Mum, who has early dementia has said she wants to change her will to my benefit. I do believe she knows what she is saying, but if I accept our know there will be such a back lash. I have said this, but she said I don't care. My problem is she won't have to deal with it I will. I am so torn, she keeps insisting that this is what she wants and whathe my Dad would of wanted. I love them both sides very much and want to the right thing what do I do, my brother will say she was diagnosed with dementia and didn't know what she was doing. Just want to do what my parents wanted. Advice please. X