Hi there
Social Services called today to say that they're coming to assess mum on Tuesday. Does anyone know whether they will offer any support if mum and dad have savings or will they just give us a list of private companies to contact? If this is the case how much would they have to have in the bank for social services to decline care?
Also, if mum's adamant that she can manage, with dad's help, and refuses any outside help, i.e. someone coming to help wash and dress her in the morning, would they over-rule mum on the basis that dad can't cope (have requested a carer's assessment for him too), or would they take mum's wishes into account?
I just want to be prepared for the meeting on Tuesday and any advice would be much appreciated.
Many thanks.
Simmo
Social Services called today to say that they're coming to assess mum on Tuesday. Does anyone know whether they will offer any support if mum and dad have savings or will they just give us a list of private companies to contact? If this is the case how much would they have to have in the bank for social services to decline care?
Also, if mum's adamant that she can manage, with dad's help, and refuses any outside help, i.e. someone coming to help wash and dress her in the morning, would they over-rule mum on the basis that dad can't cope (have requested a carer's assessment for him too), or would they take mum's wishes into account?
I just want to be prepared for the meeting on Tuesday and any advice would be much appreciated.
Many thanks.
Simmo