Hi all,
Mum is in hospital following a fall. She lives with me and has done for a number of years. She is in the final stages. We have come to the most heartbreaking decision I have ever had to make that we can no longer look after her at home. It is getting impossible to help her as she won't allow help. She is not eating and drinking and takes me all my power and might to get her to eat. Non of the nurses are able to get her to eat drink or take meds, she cannot communicate. She hasn't broken anything so the X-ray shows but she has not walked since, it seems more the dementia and the fact she is in hospital environment to be honest. The nurses keep mentioning a MDT meeting at the hospital to assess what type of care mum will need. I have googled this and it mentions the NHS Continuing healthcare. I have been trying to get my head round it but am at a loss as to weather or not mum is eligible and if it's worthy of fighting for. Can anyone give us any advice on what to ask for and check we are being properly assessed when in the meeting. Mum is below the £23k threshold anyway but is it easier and quicker to get Nhs chc? I would safely say this is the worst time of my life! Ever! Without trying to understand this jargon!! Xx
Mum is in hospital following a fall. She lives with me and has done for a number of years. She is in the final stages. We have come to the most heartbreaking decision I have ever had to make that we can no longer look after her at home. It is getting impossible to help her as she won't allow help. She is not eating and drinking and takes me all my power and might to get her to eat. Non of the nurses are able to get her to eat drink or take meds, she cannot communicate. She hasn't broken anything so the X-ray shows but she has not walked since, it seems more the dementia and the fact she is in hospital environment to be honest. The nurses keep mentioning a MDT meeting at the hospital to assess what type of care mum will need. I have googled this and it mentions the NHS Continuing healthcare. I have been trying to get my head round it but am at a loss as to weather or not mum is eligible and if it's worthy of fighting for. Can anyone give us any advice on what to ask for and check we are being properly assessed when in the meeting. Mum is below the £23k threshold anyway but is it easier and quicker to get Nhs chc? I would safely say this is the worst time of my life! Ever! Without trying to understand this jargon!! Xx