Well, it's the voice of experience! William was so happy and secure in the nursing home, there was no aggression or violence, no problem about personal care, and no problem getting him to eat and drink. He was thrilled to see me every day, and sad that I couldn't stay. The only cloud on his horizon was that he wanted "to be where you are ". But while he was at home, having someone who could be aggressive or refusing to eat, drink or take their medication and who wanted to be where you are - all. the. time. That was so different! I once went around two weeks without showering because I couldn't get to the bathroom for long enough.