Every day my mother, a dementia patient, wakes up, gets dressed, puts her purse on her arm, and says, "Where are we going today?" Yet, my siblings tell me she shouldn't visit their homes, as it would upset her routine. I disagree. Any advice?
Any advice?
Yep, as long as my husband was able, I took him out every day. As his illness progressed, we went fewer places, but I only stopped taking him out when he started to forget how to get into the car, and we were stuck in a car park one day for about half an hour! He just couldn't remember how to do it - and if you try it, to explain to someone how to get into the passenger seat of a car, when they can't remember what to do, is very difficult! Especially when it's a tiny car! I took him back around the shops a couple of times to walk around and then back to the car - and finally it "clicked" and he just got in automatically!
Every day my mother, a dementia patient, wakes up, gets dressed, puts her purse on her arm, and says, "Where are we going today?" Yet, my siblings tell me she shouldn't visit their homes, as it would upset her routine. I disagree. Any advice?