I know this will horrify most of you, but I have just had the though that I wish my husband could just move into a home. I know I don't really want that, but sometimes I think it would be a relief. He is not yet in the later stages of the disease, in fact only recently formally diagnosed, even though his family and friends have known he has Alzheimer's for at least 2 years. The problem for me is not the memory loss, but the mania, which may or may not be connected with his dementia. He had a psychotic episode last year, which was horrific to live through. He came out of it with the help of drugs, but all of a sudden it's come back with a vengeance almost overnight, and I can't communicate or reason with him. He is totally consumed with anger about something one of our neighbours has done, and has it completely out of proportion but anything I say just makes him worse. He is not functioning properly at all.
I've spoken to the memory service and we have a doctor coming in Thursday to see him, although I haven't told him yet - waiting for a suitable moment and will have to lie and say the doctor initiated the visit as a check up. Can I wait til Thursday, I don't know? And will he just act as if nothing is wrong, and I will look as if I am making an unnecessary fuss and wasting people's time.
Sorry, just an outpouring of self- pity.
I've spoken to the memory service and we have a doctor coming in Thursday to see him, although I haven't told him yet - waiting for a suitable moment and will have to lie and say the doctor initiated the visit as a check up. Can I wait til Thursday, I don't know? And will he just act as if nothing is wrong, and I will look as if I am making an unnecessary fuss and wasting people's time.
Sorry, just an outpouring of self- pity.