I'm so sorry that you were upset when you visited BugsBunny. But you are saying the right thing about the suggested holiday by putting the onus on "The Doctor", and that the decision rests with him, not you.
Only you know if a holiday would be possible. Personally, I found a half hour visit to the local garden centre traumatic enough, and when we returned home, John had forgotten we'd been anyway.
Also, he often woke me in the middle of the night and asked what time the plane was, to take us home, and that he'd done his packing (a pair of socks in his toiletry bag
), so I'd mumble something like "it's not for a few hours yet", so I suppose in
his mind we were frequent flyers.