I buy Tena medium incontinence pants for Mum as they are the only ones I have found that are small enough and show which is the front and back. are there any other small ones around that cheaper or can buy in bulk?
Will the care home not supply them for you. My mums NH do all that for mum and before that when she was in very sheltered accom I was able to get them from social services.
Most LA have an incontinence nurse you can get access to via your GP. My mum gets hers free on prescription and we get a delivery every 3 months. Worth a try x
If she is that small, you might find that baby nappy Manufactures make pull ups for bedtime, up to 12 years old ( I think) Dry Nites? They might be cheaper
