Mum has been in the care home now since late May and whilst still wanting to leave the home, she has settled to a certain degree. So much so she is now in love with one of the gentlemen in the home and it appears the feeling is mutual! They have just moved her into a room actually on the dementia floor (last week)so should be getting better care than just being on the residential floor but it has confused her again and she keeps going in to the wrong room.
I would like to bring her to my home for a meal and a visit but my question is when is the right time to do this? I don't want to add to her confusion and as she is so concerned when I visit her now as to where her gentleman friend is, will she be wanting to bring him on the visit!
I have held off since May to bring her out of the home as I did not want to add to her confusion, but I really don't know when the right time will be.
Any advice greatly appreciated please
I would like to bring her to my home for a meal and a visit but my question is when is the right time to do this? I don't want to add to her confusion and as she is so concerned when I visit her now as to where her gentleman friend is, will she be wanting to bring him on the visit!
I have held off since May to bring her out of the home as I did not want to add to her confusion, but I really don't know when the right time will be.
Any advice greatly appreciated please