I have downloaded the form for Attendance Alllowance - reading it through it seems be be aimed at people who are paying for care/help in their own homes - my mum is currently refusing all and any help so is it still worth me claiming as she will not be using the money for any specific help ?
Do not be put off from claiming for this. It covers quite a broad range of help. My father is self funding but has been in receipt of AA since his stroke in 2009. He has not always had daily paid carers attending . Sometimes it has just been me and not always needed help with personal care. You must include everything you do on the form including shopping, help with financial paperwork, social outings, taking her to appointments and sorting out medication, housework, gardening - literally everything- it does not all need to be done by professional care agencies for her to qualify.
Dad was able to increase the rate in more recent times to the higher rate because he is at risk of trips and falls if left alone for long, gets up frequently in night, dementia etc on top of other health issues. As advised earlier just include absolutely everything on the form, take a copy so you don't forget what you have said and paint the worst case days not the good days.