I love my Mum dearly but at the moment I don't like her very much!
She is at the cruel stage of Alz where she knows she is losing her memory and is depressed because of that realisation.
Last night she stayed with a friend as she accused her brother/carer of being awful and throwing things. (I am sure it is her who's being nasty and violent).
When I picked her up this morning I found out she sees this friend frequently. I visit every week and my youngest sister who works near her pops in regularly. (yet she never sees anyone !!!!)
The friend seems to have sided with Mum. She told me that we (my sisters & I) need to see her more often !!
Now not only am I battling with Mum I have outsiders telling me what to do.
My real concern is if an authorative person gets to hear some of her accusations they'll be trouble. Not least for my uncle.
I just wanted to get this of my chest but does anyone else have to deal with this sort of situation
She is at the cruel stage of Alz where she knows she is losing her memory and is depressed because of that realisation.
Last night she stayed with a friend as she accused her brother/carer of being awful and throwing things. (I am sure it is her who's being nasty and violent).
When I picked her up this morning I found out she sees this friend frequently. I visit every week and my youngest sister who works near her pops in regularly. (yet she never sees anyone !!!!)
The friend seems to have sided with Mum. She told me that we (my sisters & I) need to see her more often !!
Now not only am I battling with Mum I have outsiders telling me what to do.
My real concern is if an authorative person gets to hear some of her accusations they'll be trouble. Not least for my uncle.
I just wanted to get this of my chest but does anyone else have to deal with this sort of situation