Hi all,
Reaching out at this most difficult stage. Mum has been fighting constant infection for the last few weeks and at the weekend she stopped responding to antibiotics.
Yesterday the doctors spoke with us and said it was time to move her on to palliative care.
They've not been able to get an IV line in so they have withdrawn fluids since yesterday morning. She has a morphine drive and on the whole is comfortable.
She can't drink as is having issues swallowing so it's really just a matter of time.
I'm just finding all of this so incredibly hard.
We're playing her favorite music and talking to her but I fee so lost and helpless.
It seems so cruel to not be doing something for her. Unbearable. I want to be her for her. But finding it immensely difficult.
Any words of encouragement greatly appreciated.
Reaching out at this most difficult stage. Mum has been fighting constant infection for the last few weeks and at the weekend she stopped responding to antibiotics.
Yesterday the doctors spoke with us and said it was time to move her on to palliative care.
They've not been able to get an IV line in so they have withdrawn fluids since yesterday morning. She has a morphine drive and on the whole is comfortable.
She can't drink as is having issues swallowing so it's really just a matter of time.
I'm just finding all of this so incredibly hard.
We're playing her favorite music and talking to her but I fee so lost and helpless.
It seems so cruel to not be doing something for her. Unbearable. I want to be her for her. But finding it immensely difficult.
Any words of encouragement greatly appreciated.