Hi All
Know you will try and help thats why I am writing my dad has vascular dementia and probably in the final stages. He has had repeated chest infections for the last 2 months and deteriorated with each one. I nurse him at home with mum and a good care package but it doesn;t seem enough. He has become really agressive of late and I think I am his worst enemy when the carers come and he wont co operate I have to help and I think he hates it and lashes out at me. I sort him out and when I leave I feel so sad that I think he hates me it is in his eyes and I love him so much.
I can;t stand the thought of him going into someones elses care as I dont think anyone will look after him like I do. I know what your all going to say and I know what I would say to my best friend if it was her in this situation it is just so hard. I have looked at so many places and not one of them comes up to my high standard, Pleas
Please let me know what you think. I feel so sad
ANgela xxxx
Know you will try and help thats why I am writing my dad has vascular dementia and probably in the final stages. He has had repeated chest infections for the last 2 months and deteriorated with each one. I nurse him at home with mum and a good care package but it doesn;t seem enough. He has become really agressive of late and I think I am his worst enemy when the carers come and he wont co operate I have to help and I think he hates it and lashes out at me. I sort him out and when I leave I feel so sad that I think he hates me it is in his eyes and I love him so much.
I can;t stand the thought of him going into someones elses care as I dont think anyone will look after him like I do. I know what your all going to say and I know what I would say to my best friend if it was her in this situation it is just so hard. I have looked at so many places and not one of them comes up to my high standard, Pleas
Please let me know what you think. I feel so sad
ANgela xxxx