I'm at a difficult crossroads and not sure what to do.
My mum has late stage Alzheimer's and recently moved in to ch. it's been a very rapid decline since Dec.
Prior to Dec dad was her main carer and they both lived at home. Mum became doubly incontinent towards the end of last year and has been unable to talk and hold conversation for a long while.
She fell and broke her hip in Jan, was moved to Psych ward in Feb after increasingly aggressive behaviour and more recently in to ch.
Since moving to the ch mum will now no longer walk - physically she was very fit until she broke her hip, she's only 68. She was walking well post operation but has suddenly stopped wanting to walk. She's had follow up X-rays which showed everything as normal so not sure what's causing it.
Ch have advised it's unlikely she'll walk again.
This week she went downhill further - high temp and unresponsiveness. Doc administered antibiotics but yet to see the effect.
She's lost a lot of weight again in spite of regaining whilst in the Physch ward, and the nurses at the ch now advise she can no longer eat unaided.
I'm so shocked and saddened by such a rapid decline.
I live in Australia (have done for the past 10 years) and have 2 small children. I was back in the UK last year for 3 months to help sort out care for mum, and also saw them over Xmas.
I had flights booked to come back to the UK in Aug but now I'm thinking that I should go sooner. I'm alarmed that things have been going downhill so quickly.
Tough decision is whether to go now and how long to go for. Staying indefinitely could be an option but would mean so much to sort out as hubby and I have work here and the kids, house etc.
Does the stage mum is at sound familiar to anyone?
I guess I'm looking for some guidance from experience as to whether this sounds close to end stages.
I desperately want to see mum but trying to figure out how to sort everything else out. Feeling massively confused at the moment. Any advice would be much appreciated....
Thanks for reading.
My mum has late stage Alzheimer's and recently moved in to ch. it's been a very rapid decline since Dec.
Prior to Dec dad was her main carer and they both lived at home. Mum became doubly incontinent towards the end of last year and has been unable to talk and hold conversation for a long while.
She fell and broke her hip in Jan, was moved to Psych ward in Feb after increasingly aggressive behaviour and more recently in to ch.
Since moving to the ch mum will now no longer walk - physically she was very fit until she broke her hip, she's only 68. She was walking well post operation but has suddenly stopped wanting to walk. She's had follow up X-rays which showed everything as normal so not sure what's causing it.
Ch have advised it's unlikely she'll walk again.
This week she went downhill further - high temp and unresponsiveness. Doc administered antibiotics but yet to see the effect.
She's lost a lot of weight again in spite of regaining whilst in the Physch ward, and the nurses at the ch now advise she can no longer eat unaided.
I'm so shocked and saddened by such a rapid decline.
I live in Australia (have done for the past 10 years) and have 2 small children. I was back in the UK last year for 3 months to help sort out care for mum, and also saw them over Xmas.
I had flights booked to come back to the UK in Aug but now I'm thinking that I should go sooner. I'm alarmed that things have been going downhill so quickly.
Tough decision is whether to go now and how long to go for. Staying indefinitely could be an option but would mean so much to sort out as hubby and I have work here and the kids, house etc.
Does the stage mum is at sound familiar to anyone?
I guess I'm looking for some guidance from experience as to whether this sounds close to end stages.
I desperately want to see mum but trying to figure out how to sort everything else out. Feeling massively confused at the moment. Any advice would be much appreciated....
Thanks for reading.