Tonight while my husband and I were out to dinner, I used the wrong word for something. He corrected me by telling me the not the correct word, and I Very nicely told him what it felt like when he corrected me. Let me say that I have the world's most awesome husband, Supportive loving and is on this dementia rode with me.
I said that I would rather him not correct me, because if I say I'm eating a palm tree, and mean tomato, I'm not aware of the wrong word and it doesn't matter to me and most times he knows what I mean.
He felt that he was steering me in the right direction and doesn'r mean anything by it. I feel corrected and that I'm doing something wrong when he corrects me and points out the correct word ...... I do this often.
I told him I was going to post this to see how other dementia patients feel when people correct them when they use the wrong words. There is no right or wrong answer to this. Just curious
I said that I would rather him not correct me, because if I say I'm eating a palm tree, and mean tomato, I'm not aware of the wrong word and it doesn't matter to me and most times he knows what I mean.
He felt that he was steering me in the right direction and doesn'r mean anything by it. I feel corrected and that I'm doing something wrong when he corrects me and points out the correct word ...... I do this often.
I told him I was going to post this to see how other dementia patients feel when people correct them when they use the wrong words. There is no right or wrong answer to this. Just curious