I am having a difficult time with my mother now as she accuses me of wanting her money and such. Yesterday she kept insisting that I want her money. Nothing could be further from the truth as she doesn't have much and I have helped her out for some time now. She always said of me "I know you don't care about money and that you are not materialistic. You are a giver, like me".
I have read that you are to “agree”, so, finally, I agreed that she was right. This led to further rage. She was never this way all her life and I do love her and want to calm her, but I cant seem to. Any suggestions about what to do with accusations?
Another question I have is this:
She does get angry at other people, but seems to be able to hold that anger in long enough to tell me about it. How does she manage to control herself if she is out of control? It confuses me. Thank you.
I have read that you are to “agree”, so, finally, I agreed that she was right. This led to further rage. She was never this way all her life and I do love her and want to calm her, but I cant seem to. Any suggestions about what to do with accusations?
Another question I have is this:
She does get angry at other people, but seems to be able to hold that anger in long enough to tell me about it. How does she manage to control herself if she is out of control? It confuses me. Thank you.
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