After I'd had a lovely 24 hours break thanks to wonderful privately arranged companion ,today we had some toilet difficulties that meant we arrived half an hour late for an appointment at the GP. The nurse was going to do a blood test as they thought husband might be borderline diabetic. We've often waited more than half an hour so I thought she would see us anyway, but was told she wouldn't because "it would eat into her lunch hour". . I'm afraid I said in a sarcastic way" wouldn't want that to happen would we?"
Truth is, I think borderline diabetes is less of an issue than the sleeplessness and sundowning.
We went to bed around 10pm after about four hours of major fretting, and he fell asleep around 10.30, but woke very anxious at 11.45 and has only just gone back to sleep. Being woken when you're in your deepest sleep is so horrible....
I can't imagine any care home keeping him with that much wakefulness.
Oh Anne, I am sure there is a CH that would be able to help your hubby. Robert didn't sleep for months when he was here and then in the CH and they always managed him and said it was their job to do so. They are trained for just this sort of behaviour at night. As for the nurse not seeing you because it was her lunch time I think is atrocious especially under your circumstances. Sending you a huge ((((((((((((((hug))))))))))))) and lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx