Would really value some advice please. I am convinced that my mother-in-law has dementia and has had symptoms for some years. We have noticed short-term memory problems and mood changes with depression/withdrawal for about 5 years, together with repetition of speech. Things have got progressively worse. She can't find her way anywhere alone now and is quite anxious most of the time. She struggles with anything requiring cognitive skills eg. playing board games with the children, map-reading, and also follows my father-in-law around if he leaves the room etc. She is noticeably worse in the evenings and often disturbed at night. I think they are seeing a specialist (she has definitely had a brain scan) but they don't really want to talk about it, which we respect. She's a very intelligent retired professional lady. The real problem is that recently she has started to become paranoid as well and has telephoned me a number of times with various worries, mostly about money being taken from her bank account by family members. I just don't know how to respond to this. She is still very articulate but I don't think telling her the truth-that I think she's suffering from paranoia as a symptom of dementia-is going to be the way to go. I keep reassuring her and hoping she'll forget (!) and move on but she seems fixated with this. Also, she is still driving and I don't think this is safe at all. Sorry to be so long-winded! Thanks folks.