At the moment I am making the effort most days to get MIL up and dressed but she then sits in her chair and sleeps with her head dropping forward or sometimes the top of her body folded over. Would it be kinder to leave her in bed? I’m not sure what to do in her best interests.
We have to use a standing hoist to get her up and into a wheelchair to move her as walking seems to be a thing of the past most days.
OT said they only provide hospital beds to those who are bedbound and because she can be mobile some days she’s not considered bedbound.
She does have a profiling bed so I can sit her to feed her, it just doesn’t go up and down to save my back!
We’re trying to plan for the future in regards to her care. It takes an enormous effort to get her to day care (at the home that she goes for respite). They are not having any more success than we do at getting food and drink down her and she sleeps most of the day in a chair bent over. MIL doesn’t really get anything out of this now but we get 2 days off.
Wondering if we’d be better to spend the money getting carers in for some of the time but reluctant as it would mean we would be confined to barracks or would have to leave her home alone between carers visits if we wanted to go out for any length of time. What do other people do at this stage?
We have to use a standing hoist to get her up and into a wheelchair to move her as walking seems to be a thing of the past most days.
OT said they only provide hospital beds to those who are bedbound and because she can be mobile some days she’s not considered bedbound.
She does have a profiling bed so I can sit her to feed her, it just doesn’t go up and down to save my back!
We’re trying to plan for the future in regards to her care. It takes an enormous effort to get her to day care (at the home that she goes for respite). They are not having any more success than we do at getting food and drink down her and she sleeps most of the day in a chair bent over. MIL doesn’t really get anything out of this now but we get 2 days off.
Wondering if we’d be better to spend the money getting carers in for some of the time but reluctant as it would mean we would be confined to barracks or would have to leave her home alone between carers visits if we wanted to go out for any length of time. What do other people do at this stage?