Thanks Jaymor. I guess then we will be notified when the assessment is being carried out so that either my dad or myself can be in attendance. As mums attorney do they speak with both of us or just one...
Going to try and read through the PDFs on the Alzheimer's society website to try and understand more
Thanks Kevin. It makes more sense now and is needed I can see.
Also, just to add, even though the person from the DOLS team visited mum without me knowing, she found mum to not have capacity and it was in her best interest to stay in 24 he care. This helped me and still does to cope with my guilt as its a professional that sees what we see daily. The lady also gave me lots of advice etc, look at care plan in home every now and then, ask home questions etc. they were helpful x
I,m wondering if anyone reading this has experience of objecting to the DoL, say for example you wish to take your relative out of the care home and care for them yourself or employ home carers. What would be the way forward? Would it be to satisfy the Adult Social Care Services with your arrangements first and then would the "not free to leave" be removed? After all I've heard of people being arrested for taking their loved ones out of care homes. There was that very well known case of WM (don't like to name names) that came to the news in 2013.