Recently I am having increasing difficulty keeping calm when dealing with my husband on an off day. I have concluded that I am the problem. He is just being a person with dementia.
For example I was on the phone with BT this morning being guided through fixing a broadband problem and with John wandering about trying to put on my coat instead of his own and the tension just kept rising as I juggled with two difficult situations.
I don't want to end up with a stroke from stress but neither do I want to be dependent on drugs so what is the answer? How to stay calm and healthy in stressful situations? I can only manage one swim a week at present and our walks are very limited because of his bad knee. Any suggestions?
For example I was on the phone with BT this morning being guided through fixing a broadband problem and with John wandering about trying to put on my coat instead of his own and the tension just kept rising as I juggled with two difficult situations.
I don't want to end up with a stroke from stress but neither do I want to be dependent on drugs so what is the answer? How to stay calm and healthy in stressful situations? I can only manage one swim a week at present and our walks are very limited because of his bad knee. Any suggestions?