Mum is still holding on to life although sleeping more and more. The doctor does not agree she is at the end of her life, and thinks she is depressed. When she sleeps her hands are starting to curl in at the wrists, she has glazed eyes, double incontinence, not eating, but still drinking. She is in bed for 20 hours a day and when up is in a special mobile recliner. They are swabbing her mouth as she is not swallowing saliva. She is sore from not moving and so thin.
To me, she is not sad or depressed, she is just completely done in. When she is depressed I get abuse. Im not getting any. When she remembers who I am she is pleased to see me.
I feel as if my life is on hold and that the world has stopped turning. Headache, stomach-ache, cant sleep and coming to work each day to divert my mind and stop me going completely nuts. Im just waiting for the phone to ring with terrible news.
To all those out there in the last moments of this terrible disease you are in my prayers, which are constant. Some day this will be over but I will never be the same again.
X
Quilty
After the vusit tomorrow i will ramp up the pressure on the doctor. We have liquid pain relief now but i want some pain patches and a just in case pack. The doctor said we needed to wait 2 weeks whuch is exactly what the care home has done.
As fir crying i think if i start i might not stop. Ive already had a melt down at the care home and at work. I am a very private and contained person so i find that really hard.
Just in case meds are now in place. The lead nurse is a step ahead of the gp thankfully.