It's literally only been a couple of weeks since I started looking at care homes for my mother and the one I liked best told me on Friday they'd put her on the waiting list. I was expecting a few months to get used to the idea (me more than her ) but they rang this evening saying there is a bed now (some people above her in the list didn't meet the mobility criteria when assessed. It is not a nursing home; just for dementia, and my mother is mobile with no other conditions except dementia) So they asked if I will bring her over to look at her room and discuss the financing. We're going on Thursday.
This is all well and good because I know she needs residential care and this is the nicest home I have seen - but it all seems so sudden! I mean- in theory she might be in there in a couple of weeks time.
I have barely raised the subject with her (talk of her having a temporary holiday while I go abroad on work) and now they want to show her a room.
It is the right thing to do - I'm just a bit jittery and I hope she won't think I've let her down. The lady who rang said did we want a place now or did we want to stay on the list for a while. I said we do want the place now - and we do! - but - oh
This is all well and good because I know she needs residential care and this is the nicest home I have seen - but it all seems so sudden! I mean- in theory she might be in there in a couple of weeks time.
I have barely raised the subject with her (talk of her having a temporary holiday while I go abroad on work) and now they want to show her a room.
It is the right thing to do - I'm just a bit jittery and I hope she won't think I've let her down. The lady who rang said did we want a place now or did we want to stay on the list for a while. I said we do want the place now - and we do! - but - oh