My first time posting.
My Dad got sectioned in November, could walk, didn't hallucinate and wasn't aggressive. The first week he was in the unit he was restrained and put in seclusion for attacking and head butting staff, this happened daily.
Then was experimented on with different meds, now my Dad hallucinates all day and night, can't feed himself, doubly incontinent, and worst of all can't walk. He now doesn't know who we are, says hello mate to me, his daughter, but doesn't know me really, can't place how he knows me.
Yet, still the aggression remains.
He gets moved about in a wheelchair and a hoist now into bed/chair but still lashes out, grabs, squeezes and scratches. I just don't know what emi nursing home will take him as when I have visited such homes they say we don't take challenging aggressive behaviour.
What a joke?
Dad already had Alzheimer's and Vascular Dementia, now we were told 2 months ago that he has Lewy Body Dementia too. Problem is some people with lewy body are sensitive to meds and they hallucinate more and have muscle stiffness, and that is my Dad! Nothing is helping with the aggression as his hallucinations are so distressing for him.
Poor guy doesn't stand a chance. It's only been 3 months from showing some symptoms to being horrendously ill. I just wonder how long he has left as we are at the stage of thickening drinks already. Clenches his teeth to stop drinks going in as he is frightened to swallow. Refuses most times to eat too and gone to 8st 12.
Finding it far top stressful watching mum crumble after 50 years of marriage and I have a 1year and a 3 year old.
Dad is only 73.
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My Dad got sectioned in November, could walk, didn't hallucinate and wasn't aggressive. The first week he was in the unit he was restrained and put in seclusion for attacking and head butting staff, this happened daily.
Then was experimented on with different meds, now my Dad hallucinates all day and night, can't feed himself, doubly incontinent, and worst of all can't walk. He now doesn't know who we are, says hello mate to me, his daughter, but doesn't know me really, can't place how he knows me.
Yet, still the aggression remains.
He gets moved about in a wheelchair and a hoist now into bed/chair but still lashes out, grabs, squeezes and scratches. I just don't know what emi nursing home will take him as when I have visited such homes they say we don't take challenging aggressive behaviour.
What a joke?
Dad already had Alzheimer's and Vascular Dementia, now we were told 2 months ago that he has Lewy Body Dementia too. Problem is some people with lewy body are sensitive to meds and they hallucinate more and have muscle stiffness, and that is my Dad! Nothing is helping with the aggression as his hallucinations are so distressing for him.
Poor guy doesn't stand a chance. It's only been 3 months from showing some symptoms to being horrendously ill. I just wonder how long he has left as we are at the stage of thickening drinks already. Clenches his teeth to stop drinks going in as he is frightened to swallow. Refuses most times to eat too and gone to 8st 12.
Finding it far top stressful watching mum crumble after 50 years of marriage and I have a 1year and a 3 year old.
Dad is only 73.
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