Wasn't sure where to post.
OH got phonecall from SIL last night, saying she has arranged for MIL(no dementia but I think on its way due to odd behaviour) to draw up a DNR and naming OH as the person to be contacted.
SIL is US based and MIL is in Scotland. I've not heard of this on TP, so is SIL doing a US type of thing, as I thought it was GP/Hospital etc that would have a DNR?
I commented to OH she would be better off spending her time sorting out POA, ho hum. I'm convinced various behaviours indicate issues but OH and SIL have heads in sand, SIL as she thinks I'm scaremongering and OH as he has a fairly distant relationship with his mum and doesn't want to get involved.
OH now offended that MIL didn't tell him before drawing document up.
OH got phonecall from SIL last night, saying she has arranged for MIL(no dementia but I think on its way due to odd behaviour) to draw up a DNR and naming OH as the person to be contacted.
SIL is US based and MIL is in Scotland. I've not heard of this on TP, so is SIL doing a US type of thing, as I thought it was GP/Hospital etc that would have a DNR?
I commented to OH she would be better off spending her time sorting out POA, ho hum. I'm convinced various behaviours indicate issues but OH and SIL have heads in sand, SIL as she thinks I'm scaremongering and OH as he has a fairly distant relationship with his mum and doesn't want to get involved.
OH now offended that MIL didn't tell him before drawing document up.