My 85 year old Mother is in the final stages of dementia, has not had anything to drink for the last 4 days and nothing to eat for some time before that.
She is on a morphine pump and the pain she was suffering a few days ago seems under control.
We have been staying over night in her room at the care home, but this is quite exhausting and difficult with work etc.
The doors to all the rooms close at night and although careers and nurses do come round there would be no one with her all the time if we were not there.There could be an hour or so between visits. When I hold her hand she some times squeezes it as I talk to her.
I would like to hear other's experience in this situation as I don't know what to do for the best. Should someone be with her all the time? The home told us this would be the case, but it is not.
She is on a morphine pump and the pain she was suffering a few days ago seems under control.
We have been staying over night in her room at the care home, but this is quite exhausting and difficult with work etc.
The doors to all the rooms close at night and although careers and nurses do come round there would be no one with her all the time if we were not there.There could be an hour or so between visits. When I hold her hand she some times squeezes it as I talk to her.
I would like to hear other's experience in this situation as I don't know what to do for the best. Should someone be with her all the time? The home told us this would be the case, but it is not.