Hi all, Emily here
I hope you're all ok?
So it's been a few weeks now since I started staying over at Grandma's to help out with Granddad on a Friday night. It's been helping Grandma a lot as it gives her something to look forward to and she says it's nice to have a 'Normal' conversation at night time, it breaks my heart.
It's extra nice for her as Mum comes for tea on the Friday, leaves at around 7 and I stay the night, and Mum comes back up on Saturday for a bit then we go and do some shopping. Granddad is finding the adjustment of having someone new in the house over night a little hard to cope with but he's getting there.
His Dementia seems to be declining more and more, he is getting aggressive (He doesn't hit or hurt us) but he gets really sharp, agitated, slams things down and he keeps saying he's dying; has anyone else experienced this with a loved one? He is also obsessive over things, so every night he will do things 4 times over. He'll lock the door, open it, lock it etc.
He has Vascular Dementia, we don't really know what caused it but all we know is that it is Vascular and he has small strokes. Does anyone know how many stages there are of this, how much worse he will get?
Thanks everyone
Emily (Carer of Grandfather with Dementia)
I hope you're all ok?
So it's been a few weeks now since I started staying over at Grandma's to help out with Granddad on a Friday night. It's been helping Grandma a lot as it gives her something to look forward to and she says it's nice to have a 'Normal' conversation at night time, it breaks my heart.
It's extra nice for her as Mum comes for tea on the Friday, leaves at around 7 and I stay the night, and Mum comes back up on Saturday for a bit then we go and do some shopping. Granddad is finding the adjustment of having someone new in the house over night a little hard to cope with but he's getting there.
His Dementia seems to be declining more and more, he is getting aggressive (He doesn't hit or hurt us) but he gets really sharp, agitated, slams things down and he keeps saying he's dying; has anyone else experienced this with a loved one? He is also obsessive over things, so every night he will do things 4 times over. He'll lock the door, open it, lock it etc.
He has Vascular Dementia, we don't really know what caused it but all we know is that it is Vascular and he has small strokes. Does anyone know how many stages there are of this, how much worse he will get?
Thanks everyone
Emily (Carer of Grandfather with Dementia)