I do my best to take my husband out,even if it is only for coffee, he is in day care 3 days, goes out with my daughter in law one afternoon, some Saturday's he goes out with a carer for 4hours I make sure it is. Male company. We have both been quiet people at home watched TV now my husband is not interested he also paces around for hours, trying to get him to sit down to eat or even have a coffee is difficult, morning showers and dressing are getting more difficult, so I like to sit and. Watch TV and play solitaire on the I pad, but I feel I am neglecting him, I feel so guilty, can't get him to interact in anything, music on will only dance for a while then just walks away, as I am typing this he walks up to me tells me he is frightened seems like I am rambling now