I am not so sure. His parting comment was " don't leave it too long" not sure exactly what he meant by that but I wasn't entering into any more dialogue about it.
For a couple of years my husband seemed to have taken a dislike to this man and stopped wanting to be in his company. I am wondering now if it was because he sensed something, or if there was mistrust in his intentions.
Ahhhhhhhhhhhh that is really unpleasant I agree, trust your husband's instincts and be rid of him and give him a wide berth if you are in company with him. So sorry you have had this experience. I had a couple of nasties when my husband died a couple of years ago but I was quite rude and so I suppose they didn't bother any more