Hi, I have been living in my ground floor flat for the past four years and never had any problems or issues with any of my neighbours until yesterday. My elderly neighbour upstairs came down with another neighbour (who was unaware of why she had been asked to accompany my other neighbour) to complain to my boyfriend and I about noise. She first started by saying there was a noise in the bathroom, like a wooshing noise of water. She also went as far as to say that we were creating her whole bedroom to vibrate so much her bedside tables are moving. Then she said that we are in fact waiting until she goes to bed to start making noise to keep her awake deliberately. Not only that but we are following her around her house making noises in the same rooms she goes into. We tried to reason with her as did our other neighbour that the noise must be coming from somewhere else, the roof perhaps but she insisted it was a human who was making this noise deliberately and she didn't want any help from us, just for us to stop doing what we are doing to annoy her. She also accused me of ignoring her outside our flats while getting into a black car. Neither I not anyone in my family own a black car. Could this be early onset dementia? She seems paranoid that we are out to get her and that's upsetting me the most as we are good neighbours. Not only that but she has said she will report us if it continues. I only thought it could be dementia when I calmed down and spoke to my other neighbour as in 4 years there has been no issues but all of a sudden she thinks we are following her around her house making noises that only she can hear. Also said the noises don't happen when visitors are in implying again that we are doing it to annoy her and her alone.
Any help on how to handle this situation would be greatly welcomed. I would like to help her if possible but given she is convinced we want to bring harm to her I don't know what to do.
Thanks x
Any help on how to handle this situation would be greatly welcomed. I would like to help her if possible but given she is convinced we want to bring harm to her I don't know what to do.
Thanks x