I am reading your posts with interest. My mother in law first went into a residential home in February this year. By June the home said they were unable to cope with her behaviour. Of particular difficulty is her fixating on a particular male resident (although not exclusively one) and then not wanting to be apart- trying to get into his room at night, following to the toilet, touching and kissing. The men (or their families) then expressed distress or confusion. She also becomes aggressive when carers try to prevent her from doing this or when relatives come to take them out. We then moved her into another home a few weeks ago (they were fully aware of the issues) and now they are also saying she has to leave for the same reasons. We are concerned about whether anywhere will cope and not aware of any single sex units in the area (Surrey/Kingston). Had involved ss and Cmht but had very little guidance. Wondering about chc funding that might meet costs of a specialist unit (if we can find one).