Hi everyone not been here for a while mums got worse rapid response on board since April, initially for 8 weeks still with her as they couldn't her discharge her I ended up on what i call happy pills as i went into melt down in may !!!!
On the 7th of July got a call from cpn she arrived at mums and her neighbour was bringing her back for the third time that morning cpn had to stay with mum untill i got there ( i was in work) when i arrived mum was sat on front step cpn sat on stairs she couldnt keep her in the house phoned social worker ( who i might add wasn't very helpful at first when i said i had a problem with mum she said "i'm busy !!!!! ) i asked for emergency respite she first told me how much it would be and then said when do you want it tomorrow or the day after id already told her i couldn't get mum in the house !! I WANT IT NOW ok she says i'll do the paper work you book her in !
Mums been there ever since having a meeting on Tuesday looks like Mums not going to be coming home I feel like iv'e let mum down and when dad was ill before he died i told him i would look after her i can't stop crying i know its for the best and Mum will be safe but i feel awful about the whole thing, its her birthday on Sunday and the care home have said it might be better to visit mum with the family take a cake etc as we don't want to disorientate her at the moment' we all usually go out for lunch on mums birthday feeling bad about that too sorry to go on just needed to Love Annie x
On the 7th of July got a call from cpn she arrived at mums and her neighbour was bringing her back for the third time that morning cpn had to stay with mum untill i got there ( i was in work) when i arrived mum was sat on front step cpn sat on stairs she couldnt keep her in the house phoned social worker ( who i might add wasn't very helpful at first when i said i had a problem with mum she said "i'm busy !!!!! ) i asked for emergency respite she first told me how much it would be and then said when do you want it tomorrow or the day after id already told her i couldn't get mum in the house !! I WANT IT NOW ok she says i'll do the paper work you book her in !
Mums been there ever since having a meeting on Tuesday looks like Mums not going to be coming home I feel like iv'e let mum down and when dad was ill before he died i told him i would look after her i can't stop crying i know its for the best and Mum will be safe but i feel awful about the whole thing, its her birthday on Sunday and the care home have said it might be better to visit mum with the family take a cake etc as we don't want to disorientate her at the moment' we all usually go out for lunch on mums birthday feeling bad about that too sorry to go on just needed to Love Annie x