Morning everyone,
Spamar, hope your tummy is feeling better now, hun. I like the heat, I admit, but if you are feeling under the weather I think it can make you feel worse x
Honest, I'm no saint or martyr, everyone, just doing what I feel is right and what I feel I can cope with - for now. No, I can't see much of the Mil I knew and loved for years, but she is still in there, somewhere. Daughter is fine now - she spent a lot of Monday and Tuesday sleeping - she tends to 'hibernate' as I call it, when she is feeling unwell - and it was clear by Tuesday night she was back to her old self.
Not as bad a day yesterday, thankfully, with Mil - she seemed fully recovered from the lurgy, and as far as I could tell she had absolutely no recollection of having had a tummy upset in the first place. She was still quite 'iffy' as regards behaviour, though - it was like having a stroppy toddler around for a lot of the day
After I sent her back to her room first thing, she slept for about 2 hours and came back down thinking she was only getting up for the first time. At first, she seemed quite chilled (for her) and as it was now after 12, I made her a sandwich lunch, which she practically inhaled (after commenting that it was a 'funny sort of breakfast to be having'!). She was jabbering away, jumping from one confabulation to another, but initially, none upset her so I just nodded and said 'really' and 'fancy that' a lot. But then it went to her saying, after she had asked the time, that she had better go and change into her 'good black trousers' ready for us going out. Quite casually, I told her not to worry - we weren't going anywhere, she could just relax. Wrong answer - straight into a strop because I'd 'promised her' I was taking her to a show, she was looking forward to it, it was just like me to change my mind and spoil her fun. No messing, I told her that she was mistaken about the the date and that if she was going to be rude, she could go and lie down in her room and calm down. Up she went, chunnering all the way and as she passed the small unit by the living room door, she spotted a hair brush dau had left lying round, picked it up and chucked it at the floor - honestly, I nearly laughed, it was such a 'toddler like' action! Until OH came home, just after 4, she was up and down the stairs, veering between seeming OK and then into having a mini tantrum over some confabulated issue or other. Each time, if she started to get rude, I got firm and told her either stop or go to her room - she headed to her room every time, but back down within maybe 15 minutes, having totally forgotten whatever had annoyed her previously and OK - till the next delusion/confabulation hit. A lot of them seemed to revolve around her having to find her 'black trousers' because she was sure we were about to 'go out' somewhere, and she veered between relief that we weren't going out at all, and annoyance because I wasn't taking her shopping, to the pictures, to visit that woman or to pick up the dress for the dance, afterall. She complained non-stop about the heat, which despite her usually loving the hot weather, she struggled with yesterday and which I think had a lot to do with the general stroppiness.
OH and dau arrived home and OH wanted to go and pick up the bits he needed to fit the new lock in the bathroom - daughter also decided that yep, it was time she abandoned the usual attire of jeans and leggings but discovered that not one pair of her shorts still fitted her. Her school shoes were also 'pinching' she said. So, as Mil had been angling to 'go out' for a lot of the day, we headed out to firstly a big DIY store - I stayed with Mil in the car while OH nipped in - and then, stopping to stock up on more soft drinks on the way - to a sports shop where I got 3 pairs of shorts for dau, managed to find suitable school shoes and picked up a pair of converse style casual shoes for her too. Those darn black trousers came back to haunt us as Mil spent the whole time moaning that she should have put them on before we went out
Back home, Mil was Ok-ish, apart from complaining about OH fitting the new lock, as it meant she had to wait to get into the bathroom a few times, but after tea she switched to misery and woe is me mode and it was whine and whinge, 'whats to become of me' and sat delivering monologues about how its all right for us, we're not worrying about where our Mum is, or how our parents are going to find us, she supposes we'll be going to the pictures without her, and we don't have to worry about being in trouble in work because we can't find the box that the boss said she was to bring in. Eventually, it veered into her getting quite rude and making quite nasty remarks, and as it was now after 8pm, bed was suggested - at first she said no, so dau decided to go grab a quick bath - at which point Mil decided she did want to go to bed afterall and got increasingly cross because dau was in the bathroom and she would have to wait. Finally she was able to go, but about 10 minutes after she was sorted with pull ups and so on, could hear a knocking from upstairs - she was stuck in the bathroom! The new lock is part of the door handle, and obviously different from the 'bolt' style lock that was previously fitted at eye level on the door - and having gone in there and locked the door, she now 'couldn't find' the new lock to open it
Good job we could get it open from outside
Back to day care today (can you hear me cheering?
) , and hopefully, as it feels a bit cooler today, we might see a less wound up Mil tonight - can always dream, can't we?
Have a good day everyone xxx