Hello LadyA - Hope you don't mind me popping in occasionally. Hubby needs so much attention (VaS) so I never seem to have enough time to keep up with all the posts, let alone reply.
I do admire how you carry on the way you do while you continue to love and care for your husband in the CH you have lots of hard work obviously maintaining your garden, etc. Although we live in town, it was a revelation to me when I worked in an office and, for the first time, I realised that living in country often meant private water supplies, wells, septic tanks, etc. Townies like us often have rose tinted specs and wish we could live in the country without realising all that it involves.
It's good that you slept well - sure you needed that.
Hope today is a better day for all of us. xx