Hi, my mother is 85, and is very independent and lives alone, but the thing is she won't settle. She has always thrived on moving house, thinking she is going to make money, but in reality she dwindles it away.She can't really manage it all herself now, but thinks she can and expects me to help her . I did help her last year thinking she just wanted to be nearer to me, and in my oppinion she is quite ok and comfortable in a lovely little cottage just five minuits away by car, but now she is starting again, saying she is not happy and making silly excuses to move again. How do i cope with this, i couldn't move every year myself but i'm expected to help her do so. I don't think she has dementia, because she seems to have more energy than me, and i'm at a loss with how to respond to her whims, she is draining me, i'm sure she will outlive me, sorry for ranting on, just would welcome any advice