scarlett.... what can i say... ivve both laughed and cried as i read your response... especially the its thursday today... ours is always tuesday... is it any wounder i tried to convince my son today that 2morrow is wednesday... the look of confusion and near fear in his eyes said my god there both at it... as for the are u with child im sure youve heard of mary and joseph just look what happened there...your john may have had a point...i was so sorry to read of his death as we all know that this is the outcome.. but please keep up with the work that you do i cnt thank everyone for the peace of mind i have when ive read the responses to my ever ending questions.. thankyou x