I've backed off for now..I love him and have pointed out the options he has..it's up to him.
That what I wish my mother had done
years ago , as lest he would of know what its like to live independently, but when he would not take his medication at the age of 22 , he got into trouble , so it was a person or take medication live with mum , that sealed his fate , because she just pandered to him so much that now at the age of 50 his got no cooking skills
I must get this of my chest , when I went to see him yesterday . he lost his post office card for the second time .
I and his support worker , where they while he phone them up . So I said to him " don't forget your password is xxxx " then support worker said "' oh he change password before, because he forgot it , his New password is your Name. he said your name , because he said he never forget it " .
I back of also for a while , but his got no other family but me .. as he lost his post office card his had no money so has not been drinking , they advice his not to drink , but I know his going to drink and he won't go into rehab like I want him to . Its got to come from him . Not me . he has to reach out for help and he won't .
So I have to back of emotional , detach myself Emotional, but recognize, acknolage my emotion . other wise I would crack
He was so easy to get on with yesterday , but still so child like so venerable gullibly .
if he stay away from Weed alcohol they just don't mix he would be fine .
he tell me he drinks , smoke because he can't take his mental illness , I"" I can't take it , I can't take it "" he tell me . he to has wanted to kill himself ... but then the weed started the mental illness . His living in a catch 22 in his mind , has no insight into it .
( am rushing this post )