Quick update
Despite only being given hours or perhaps days, Mum is still with us after two weeks of EOL care. She is still bedbound, sleeping most of the time, but when she is awake, she is more alert. Saying that, she keeps asking me to pass messages on the her Mother.
She is drinking from her sipping cup and every other day will eat a bit of scrambled egg.
She has broken skin on her back and her feet and knees. I had a big shock today, having been unwell myself yesterday and missed visiting her, I went into her room and found her lying on her bed......STARK NAKED from the waist down.
Luckily she had her legs down, usually she lies with her legs in the air, her bones and hips so arranged that her skinny knees cross.
She had been checked only 10 mins earlier as shown on her log sheet. She had somehow, and God knows how, managed to take off her PJ bottoms, knicks, pad and the sheepskin velcro heel bootees.....she hates them.
After I recovered from the shock of seeing a whole new side of my Mother.....well as much as I can EVER recover from that sight
we re-dressed her. She hates having bedclothes on, we manage to get a sheet on but her legs come up and she kicks her ankles until the sheet falls down.
I just cannot beging to imagine where she got the energy, let alone the ability, to remove these garments. she hasn't sat up for nearly 3 weeks.... her mind wanders, her fuel intake is negligble, she calls for her Mother to come for her.....and yet she clings on to life. Talk about an emotional rollercoaster.