Hi Saffie. thank you for your comments. I think its the result of the infection that has speedied up the sudden change in her situation. With cardio vascular in her experience, the patterns is: chip, chip chip BANG, lost something speech, mobility etc but regains something, then off we go again chip chip chip BANG the Bangs happen annually around November, and this pressure sore infection was discovered December. She had weeks of recovering from two bouts of sickness & dia, then this. So now more in bed that used to be, up for meals at the table, then bed rest, and sleeping during the bedrest. Mobility obviously out of the question now as she is used to resting. Wheelchaired. Bed baths. Turned 2 hourly days and night, disctrict nurses checking. I don`t expect miracles from this, I see it has a massive BANG and don`t have great expectations for the following weeks.
However, clarification on CHC is so complicated i just can`t gather the fight in me, its more important I spend time with her. I have always visited her daily expect when on holiday to recharge the batteries, I feed her at lunchtime (feeling I`m involved din her care more) and I can see she is totally exhausted. Thank you again I`ll let everyone know if CHC are invited back again by the CH or CQC who I udnerstand are aware of the sTage 3 ulcer as advised by the CH. Bye for now. thanks to all. Heather x