Hello all of you out there, I wrote some time ago about being lonely and not wanting to use a dating site well here goes I did, it seems to be a good site and to cut a long story short I have arranged to see some one on Thursday, she says she is just looking for friendship the same as me, we seem to have a lot in common I have not told anyone else about this, I fill so guilty doing this but as you know I see my lovely wife June every day and it is so hard all the family say I need to not visit so often but I don't no if this is what thy had in mind I would just not turn up but I just don't know what to do, have anyone of you out there done a similar thing any advice would be helpful Take care out there
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Well, Tony, all I can say is that if I had dementia and lived in a home, I would hope that my hubby would meet someone else and be happy again. I've told him this, so he knows. I am secure in his love for me and know that that will never die, and that like you with your dear wife, he would never ever abandon me, but I love him too and want him to be happy. Loneliness is a terrible thing that I wouldn't wish on anybody.
I hope your date goes well and that you make a new, good, friend.
Good luck x
I hope your date goes well and that you make a new, good, friend.
Good luck x
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Thanks for your messages I think I will give it a try, I will let you all know how it goes Take care xx
Good luck Tony. It's lonely on your own isn't it with nobody to make even a small observation to?
Hope it goes well for you.
Hope it goes well for you.
Dear Tony, would just like say please don't feel guilty in wanting and needing friendship now, you obviously adore your wife and that will never go away, hopefully new friendships will enhance this, well done on making this massive leap of faith, and i hope all goes well for you..if not this time..the next time.
Take care
Chris
Take care
Chris
I also wanted to say please don't just not turn up, because it may well have taken this lady a lot of courage to take this step too, just like you. If you do decide against it, perhaps you could still go, and explain to her. I'm sure she would prefer that.
But, I still say go and give it a try. It may be just what you need and something really special may come of it, who knows?
xx
But, I still say go and give it a try. It may be just what you need and something really special may come of it, who knows?
xx
Tony
You have some time left
Make the most of it
Never have quilt,easy said I know
But you have needs ,just like your wife does
And regardless of the situation,they need to be met
My dad is ready to move on,he's still fairly young,73
Mum is in the 7 th year dementia and Is 67
He went on a cruise last year had a well deserved break
You deserve to have some life although you may not want to
You need to go and enjoy it.dont feel wrong ,have fun xx
You have some time left
Make the most of it
Never have quilt,easy said I know
But you have needs ,just like your wife does
And regardless of the situation,they need to be met
My dad is ready to move on,he's still fairly young,73
Mum is in the 7 th year dementia and Is 67
He went on a cruise last year had a well deserved break
You deserve to have some life although you may not want to
You need to go and enjoy it.dont feel wrong ,have fun xx
