Hi all. This is my first time posting. I'm looking for some help in getting my dad diagnosed. He's very obviously been living with demetic for some time now. At first it was memory slips, couldn't remember the names for things and started miming most of the time for simple words for things like "duck" and "cat". Now though it has progressed to him asking the same question over and over again, not understanding what we are trying to say to him, not recognising his surroundings, not recognising people, although he recognises us he doesn't know any of our names, he talks a lot about when he was a child but doesn't remember my brother who died 10 years ago. He's constantly calling my mum to look at something normal as if he's just discover something amazing and stamps his feet if she doesn't go immediately. He sulks and gets angry through fustration.
The troube is he is not diagnosed and my mum will not take him to the doctors through a long standing distrust of the health care system. Nothing I say to her will budge her on this matter. She needs help in caring for him and he needs to get any kind of assistance that might help slow this down. She's still letting him go out in the car, even though he's forgetting the rules of the road and just driving through red lights if there's nothing coming. I'm so fustrated and I feel so helpless and sick of falling out with my mum over this. I don't know what to do!! I don't even know who his doctor is, or if he even has one
, my mum will not say and I live a 2 hour drive away so getting him to mine would be impossible . Please help.
The troube is he is not diagnosed and my mum will not take him to the doctors through a long standing distrust of the health care system. Nothing I say to her will budge her on this matter. She needs help in caring for him and he needs to get any kind of assistance that might help slow this down. She's still letting him go out in the car, even though he's forgetting the rules of the road and just driving through red lights if there's nothing coming. I'm so fustrated and I feel so helpless and sick of falling out with my mum over this. I don't know what to do!! I don't even know who his doctor is, or if he even has one
, my mum will not say and I live a 2 hour drive away so getting him to mine would be impossible . Please help.