My Husband is not settling in a Care/Nursing Home and is becoming very agitated and "difficult", he is there for 30 days whilst they can assess his needs.
Apparently when I left yesterday while he was out of the room,( because he made it clear I wasn't going to leave without him ) he was banging on the door to be let out. He is 68 the majority in the home is 75+. He is going into other Residents rooms talking and becomes aggressive to the Carers when they want him to leave the room.
He looked very poorly yesterday and is definitely losing weight, they tell me he is not eating a lot, not self caring like he usually does and frankly looks a shadow of his former self.
He was discharged from Hospital 3 days ago because he would not agree to essential investigations and was troublesome in Hospital too because he says there is nothing wrong with him, when in fact he has complex health needs. I can only liken it that he feels "caged", he doesn't want to be there.
I asked the Nurse in charge (on the phone today) what is going to happen if he doesn't improve, she said they could end up sending him back to Hospital.
I don't know what is going to happen, he was getting difficult before he went into hospital on the 9th December and I have to keep reminding myself of this fact, because in reality I think he should be at home, but I am just a pensioner with a Cardiac problem, and I felt unwell with the situation at home.
Can they send him back to Hospital? and for what sort of treatment.
Apparently when I left yesterday while he was out of the room,( because he made it clear I wasn't going to leave without him ) he was banging on the door to be let out. He is 68 the majority in the home is 75+. He is going into other Residents rooms talking and becomes aggressive to the Carers when they want him to leave the room.
He looked very poorly yesterday and is definitely losing weight, they tell me he is not eating a lot, not self caring like he usually does and frankly looks a shadow of his former self.
He was discharged from Hospital 3 days ago because he would not agree to essential investigations and was troublesome in Hospital too because he says there is nothing wrong with him, when in fact he has complex health needs. I can only liken it that he feels "caged", he doesn't want to be there.
I asked the Nurse in charge (on the phone today) what is going to happen if he doesn't improve, she said they could end up sending him back to Hospital.
I don't know what is going to happen, he was getting difficult before he went into hospital on the 9th December and I have to keep reminding myself of this fact, because in reality I think he should be at home, but I am just a pensioner with a Cardiac problem, and I felt unwell with the situation at home.
Can they send him back to Hospital? and for what sort of treatment.